Words are containers (seeds) with life or death in them. Gardening the heart involves: the seed we sow, the seed we allow others to sow, how we water those seeds, and how we allow others water those seeds.
All creation works on the seed principle. Listen and find out God’s divine design and how to apply seeds of faith (which produce life) and not seeds of doubt (which produce death). Do you want God increasing the seed you are currently sowing? – Think about it!